Looking back I am stunned at all the stress and pressure I inflicted on myself and admire other momies who seem so layback and relaxed. I also enjoy healing others and enjoy helping others. Our views on life are so different, and he likes to argue about everything any chance he gets, while I hate confrontation and would rather just have a civil conversation. Nobody can do more than that. I could not go because I was in the middle of entertaining out of town clients for work. I think that if you stay you will never find that love and respect for yourself that you deserve to have, just like anyone does.
Of course that pissed her off but it evolved to her being more open to discussing and acting on our finances. I was so lonely and needy that i jumped into a relationship only 4 months after my divorce. What does she do for you that you wont have anymore? Well done for having another go, just reading these and came through this. I have had in the past anxiety and problem with panic attacks. I wish we went to counselling.
He wants to try marriage counseling. Then he sobbed and said he would change. You sacrificed enough of your life and happiness. These are the negative things about your husband or the environment you are currently in that is preventing you from reaching the desired state. If you don't feel them, no hard feelings - we part ways and that's that. I still long for the newness and everything you stated. Physically : I am doing much better, I have lost weight and feel great about myself.
My head is all over the shop, and a new relationship is the last thing I want and need. He won't change and you'll still hold that resentment that will eat at you until you can no longer take it once again. Pray that your young children will find strength and peace. My 30 year old son seems ok with things he says he is, but of course my guilt has me questioning whether he really is. Not in the way you care about her.
He grew up in a terrible home, suffered several types of abuse, and has no family to speak of. One day, I heard a car pull in our driveway, I looked outside to see who it was. Hes happy to be this way. I told him yesterday that I was unhappy and had been for a long time. So many of us on the same boat.
I am glad for it. Forgiveness is a beautiful thing. Did your ex cure cancer, create peace in the middle east or something? A marriage under biblical reasons can end in the case of abandonment or adultery. She cusses for two hours every morning. And to tell the truth I rather admire you, because you are attempting to live according to your own truth, and while I advocate that people try to stay together in order to give children a stable home, I cannot condone living falsely. She received the message but regarded it as something that would just pass, wasn't that big of a deal, or simply not with the importance that I regarded it.
He found out and I feel so guilty for not dealing with things sooner. We were simply happy to see eachother happy. And work on it right away, before you chase away the best thing that ever happened to you. Why do you think you deserve this type of treatment? You ask for my advice, and here it is. He needs to take control of his financial well being just as much as his emotional and mental well being. I would have sold my soul to the devil for him to come back to me, but now I can see what a mistake that would have been.
Knowing my parents, I am forever grateful they divorced when I was still a kid; I cannot even begin to imagine how our lives would have been like had they decided to stay together for our sake. She needs medical attention, and should be in a grief group and see a doctor or psychiatrist and get antidepressants so that she can function and not harm your children. I broke up with him the first time because he spat on my feet at a public place, however i took him back months later. Then since you rushed it, you will have to pray up on God putting His hand in your marriage. My marriage has had many things wrong with it as far as I'm concerned. I do not want to give him false hope about us, and I know that he often assumes that my silence about my feelings means that I am trying to make things work.