I just don't know what to do. Some people are just physically affectionate with everyone. So, as you can see there are a lot of possibilities here, but I fear I can give you no solid answers. If you don't feel comfortable asking your wife if she's a lesbian, you could either investigat … e yourself or hire a private detective. My wife was someone I thought I would spend my entire life with. We are kind of done too.
My wife joined me and did seem quite embarrassed. Now, I fear I will be alone. I don't want my parents to see her as an enemy. Your wife may not even be trying to hide her affection for women from you. Learn to take care of your heart and yourself. I love my wife and family, and have a good friendship with my wife and we are a happy normal family. When the two of you are people watching and you see a larger group, who does your wife point out first? She's still essentially the same person they met so long ago -- her sexuality notwithstanding.
On the other hand, you could make love to her and learn to appreciate what you have, without worrying about the sexual orientation of her friends. She needs to be honest with you and with herself about her sexuality. The whole lesbian fantasy thing will most likely result in disaster and leave your family in ruins. Does she say she finds a certain woman attractive? She's already persuing things with women and an amicable breakup will allow both of you to live the lives you want. Thursday they were texting back and forth all day. My wife had to work Saturday morning and as soon as she left the house she started texting the woman.
No good can come from anyone letting their spouse have a fling with anyone else, regardless of sexual orientation. I know they're now in a relationship. It has always been me and my daughter. She's apparently moved on without a backwards glace. It will be divorce sooner or later. I can't help feeling that this: She wasn't cheating on me, or so she says.
Get to Know Her One of the first things you can do is talk a bit about yourself. I've had discussions with her about her maybe being bisexual or even lesbian , just trying to understand why she's not horny for me anymore. If she has trouble looking straight into your eyes or lau … ghs alot. It cut him to the core because he couldn't change anything to save his marriage. I believe she has had a lesbian affair whilst she was visiting her family in China with our son.
Flash forward to two weeks ago. Do you have an active sex life with your wife? I encourage you to prevent causing damage like this by simply opening up the discussion of each of your wants and needs and see if you guys can match up on these things once on the table. She's still going to have aversion to your man yogurt and kissing. If her friend was a man would you think its innocent. She did not try to make excuses or lie her way out of being discovered.
You don't have to kick her out, but you do need to work towards separating your living situation. Set new boundaries for your relationship, even if she tries to argue with you. Recently I was at a fundraiser for a gay youth scholarship fund. People feel betrayed when they are left out of a major secret. It is very possible that if she acts flirtatious towards you, she might be interested. You're only divorced because your wife is gay, which means you're basically normal. Or three years ago, when I proposed to her? About 8,000 annually have cosmetic surgery on their boobs.
You both need to heal from this and continuing to live together is not a good way to go about it. The wife may be too, but she's typically too scared to leave the security of her hetero marriage. I would say that you should just wait and see what signs she gives you. Even if you have them all at the same time. Lots of people do lots of strange things once in college, and the fact that she is comfortable telling you this means that she trusts you enough that you won't make too big a deal out of it, especially as I assume this event didn't exactly happen l … ast week. Sex is a very important part of a healthy marriage.
Ask her politely if she is a lesbian or bisexual. Two weeks ago, my wife came out as a lesbian. If you're lesbian, or not sure, it's best not to share that in the same conversation. Just because she pulls away sexually doesn't mean she's a lesbian, and it also doesn't mean she'll necessarily cheat on you. We are 19 and 21. If you are definitely not interested in dating your friend, this behavior can lead to heartache. Answer David writes: Well, I'm not certain about the idea of lesbianism.
You know very well what it looks like when a man checks out a woman. If he is a friend and wasn't a total shut-in his whole life you should be able to just put it out there. Why didn't she tell me four years ago when we first started dating? Your marriage is you and your wife not you, your wife, her friend, your friend, 3 somes, etc. Does she understand it's beginning to take a mental toll on you? My wife hasn't been as open to me, which does frustrate me, but I'm able to pry and get her to open up. .