HappyGrubMuslimah on Hi,I came across this when googling about Islamic views on male fantasies. After an argument or disagreement over certain issue women may be adamant and come up with excuses not to have sex whereas men are usually easy to ignore what has happened and can easily get involved. She was loyal and pleased him sexually, why did he venture off? However since men and women are interdependent, it is not wise to concentrate on one and remain silent about the other. Or do you need a helper to help you with a project whether at home, a business or personal? Taking a Christian wife spreads Islam by preventing the woman from marrying a Christian man and having Christian children. The Muslim husband is a doting and hands-on father; and this attribute makes his wife love him even more! But I feel , things might get worse and I might lose my religion if I stick on. She does not go out seeking boyfriends and she shares a halal relationship with you.
I guess the above two posts have run you through the rules and regulations of judgement. He only allows my eldest daughter to follow me. Yes I used to have fights with my husband on pity things because he was not giving me the love I wanted I wanted his care I wanted him to see I stay home all alone I go frustrated n crazy. There was a post where, ayatbinthamza, came up with some story about prophet and I came with an arguement which was a fact and Islamic. It may be hard to recognize what gives your wife pleasure. May Allah guide us all to the right path. I am trying to cut intimacy with him trust me, it is so tough.
Also, there is no excuse to discern one's child or call them names. Above All, He Desires Your Respect I spoke about this in my article In this article, I explained that women want to know their husbands love them, and men want to know their wives respect them. He is such a fool. Thankyou Ahmed on Assallamualaikum brothers and sisters, Firstly, I would like to thank the author of this post for his sharing the knowledge. Consider also what Islam teaches about women, marriage, and family.
She only wants to make things right for both. Such is the case in prohibiting polyandry while permitting polygamy, prohibiting interfaith marriage for women but allowing it for men, and allowing the practice of certain courtship rituals. Another incident illustrates how the Prophet saws asserted his leadership of his family without harsh words or violence. Ahmad is a lucky man to have made such a choice. I have 5 years old boy child. Also read the fatwa on islamqa.
I am at the edge of breaking and breaking up with him. Western culture encourages husbands and wives to talk to each other and discuss things. The ideal Muslim bridegroom therefore goes into marriage with the responsible attitude of a person establishing a family on the best possible foundation of love and mutual compassion, and not of infatuation over beauty, ambition for wealth or social position. I was very heartbroken as he was my first love and I had fought so hard to be married to him and my family was practically ostracized by my relatives. He wants me to marry him and be his 2nd wife.
But how different the circumstances. For our brothers I pray for Allah to give them the faith and moral strength to attain those great qualities and thereby make a success of their marriages. This is one of the ways Rasulullah صلي الله عليه وسلم used when he would see something inappropriate from his wives رضالله عنهنّ. Do you know his family and friends? If we cant get 1 right how can we get 2 or 3 right? So if anyone is seriously thinking about polygamy they better be up for the job. These points mentioned above are general precepts in the Shar'iah.
If that is the case why did you not seek a divorce much sooner. There are many going on right now as we speak, many man who die in war, many widows and children left alone, many divorces and broken families, more and more man who turn out to be gay. This is happening now to me, in the beggining of my marriage, im married for 3 months and we feel we dont understand. Aisha raa reported that whenever she was sick, the Prophet saws would come to her to show his sympathy. Its halal but the man has to live up with it. Polygamy can be of two types. A little background of how I ended up marrying him.
He is a beautiful soul! Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved. The following afternoon Ahmad's mother, accompanied by his oldest sister, went to the girl's house. Be sure that my appearance un-Islamic clothing is not to Ahmad's taste. However, a wise Muslim man knows that just like everything else in this world that glitters, the beauty of his wife or of any other woman, for that matter , is temporary. She is already feeling terrible.
The Bible teaches that light cannot mix with darkness. And that resentment will build up and may lead to him being unnecessarily mean to you or losing some love. Aisha raa related that before the capture of the oasis of Khaybar she had not known what it was to eat her fill of dates. His father became angry, but Ahmad remained determined to marry the woman of his choice. But do look for the religious women. And the reward in the next life for encouraging your husband to the truth.