I know you posted this a long time ago but this is for anyone that it is still coming across it, possibly after feeling anxious and frustrated and searching online for the answers for a long time but not getting closer to feeling 'sure' one way or another? Idk what to do anymore. He asked me this morning if I even loved him anymore and the sadness in his voice made me want to cry. Is it lying about small things that you're overreacting to? Step out of the cycle of immaturity and better yourself as a woman and a mother. We've been in an off and on relationship for 5 years which she broke up and reconciled me about three times and I keep taking her back because I loved her, but now I can't help but question my love for her. The romantic love of a man and a woman is not unconditional and there is no guarantee that it will stay alive unless you actually take care of it.
I started posting ads for people on craigslist and started just meeting random new people. Falling madly, deeply in love with another person is a magical feeling. The first and most obvious reason is that she has gained some weight sense we have been together. My advice would be to ignore all people, who advise you to break up. Now, past experience makes me afraid to fall in love again. Maybe it's all just catching up to me now, and I'm in for it. There are all kinds of programs that will assist you.
Maybe I just want too much. Its best to rip the band-aid off now instead of living a miserable life indefinitely. We have been together for 6 years i realize all i do is either be with him all day or at work. Are you at all addicted to pornography? First money went missing and then he was just acting like a monster to me. I know it will hurt but isnt it better to tell her the truth than be dis honest and string her along. Also by being so vague and denying certain essential details multiple people requested but you keep denying us from them you seem to utilize a certain stuborness which blocks the community from giving you the help you need instead of giving you the help you want.
Stop doing her work for her and insist that she be responsible for her share of work in this relationship, or it simply cannot function. Iv been with my bf for just a year and a half. If you really love her, and are at that point in your relationship you can talk to her. You have to deepen her feelings of love, respect and attraction for you over time. Whatever she did really isn't the point here, the fact that you don't love her is, if that's not likely to change then the answer seems obvious does it not? Instead, it will simply make her feel suffocated by you in your relationship and begin falling out of love with you as a result.
If you don't love her then don't be with her. If your girlfriend has fallen out of love with you, something about your attitude or behavior in the relationship must have changed to cause her feelings for you to change. I do love her a lot as a person but i am not in love with her. We've started to get really serious, and we're planning on getting an apartment together sometime mid 2016. Life is too short to spend even one month chained to someone you're not in love with.
You either learn to appreciate him or let him go because it is selfish of you to stay and lead him on all in while you are not giving yourself what you need which is freedom. We have both done things we thought were unforgivable when we first got together and been able to forgive each other. Yes, be supportive of her inadequacies, and yes provide her with positive reassurance along the way in the form of compliments. Now, we've been on the road a little more than a month, and I have no feelings for her. This is becoming a problem in a hurry for obvious reasons. Thanks for all the great responses everyone.
Take these signs that are listed above, you and your partner go over them together. Do i want to spend my life with her? What he wants for his future is not matching up to what I want, and being intimate makes me so uncomfortable I usually cry after. I would say he had potential when we first met, and I would have put money on it that we would of married, but meeting him. I decided to tell her I wanted to take a break. Now all I know is to distant myself from him and try to think about things.
Who she was before and what I saw her trying to accomplish was what made me attracted to her in the first place. How are dealing with your sexual urges if you're girlfriend isn't satisfying them for you? He always tells me he loves me, and any girl in the world would be lucky to have him, he would rather be with me than his friends, he loves to cuddle and constantly kiss, and he always wants me in the bedroom. Feeling like I don't love my girlfriend anymore! Make a decision, make a choice. I blushed and told her about my addiction. When I was with her I really did feel for her. I made the decision to stick it out.
Have you lost your marbles?! A very gentle yet direct approach is what's indicated, and then you can evaluate what works, and what doesn't. It sounds like you've got something good going. Complacent, secure, safe, and not really in love. I never pictured myself in this situation, and here I am, as though it was what I was always going for. It's like my brain knows how much I absolutely love and care about this girl. That is what drove me seek answers via this site. Was it drug use where she could benefit from therapy to figure out why it is she relapses and what her triggers are? Time passed and we just got comfortable being there.
I cnt evn kiSs him or hv sex with him. I feel as if what you said is true. I don't take medications, drink or do drugs. My father married my mother when she became pregnant times were different then of course. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house. Just spend an evening out a couple times a week.