He should be working as hard to pursue you as he did the day you met. Point your finger on the map and drive to the place you've chosen. So long as it's something you're comfortable with, of course. The thing is that you don't have to be the best in the world, you just have to better than other women he comes across with. Tease him and experiment with your lips.
Then, trace downwards with your fingers until you reach the bottom of his scrotum. You don't need to make up stuff he knows isn't true, but look for his strengths and let him know how much you value them. You should never be asked to go down on him, instead do it yourself and do it for your own pleasure, not his. Take your time and take charge, because the ball is in your court and your man wants it all. But men rarely notice your self-perceived flaws — they only become aware of them if you're preoccupied with them or go out of your way to cover up.
Telling us when you like something—'I love it when you f--- me hard'— is far better. Try this: Harris suggests nibbling their bottom lips and possibly even going for a harder bite if they seem receptive to it. Some women are so obsessed with trying to have a perfect relationship that they forget to relax, kick back, and just have fun with their man. Yes, you should take care of your looks as much as possible. This way you will always know how to totally and completely pleasure your man every time. Want more praise and gratitude? But minor annoyances don't have to completely torpedo a relationship; you can choose to deal with it another way.
His Frenulum: The F-spot is the little nubbin of flesh underneath the crown of his penis connecting the head to the shaft. He wants you to dominate him. You should know that both of you should be able to get what you want, or to find a middle ground where each of you gets something that makes you happy. Try this: Britton suggests having him lie on his back and slowly licking from his areola inwards, like an ice cream cone, but never touching tongue to nip. Give him the hottest foreplay experience. If you try to bring up a serious subject when he's stressed and has a lot on his plate, then you won't get the results you want. If you think your man can't be around a pretty girl without hitting on her, then you have a problem.
Most men feel more manly if they can take control and have sex with you all around the house, take control over you and dominate you. Open up the dialogue by discussing one of your fantasies first. And nothing is sexier to your guy than confidence. An important thing to remember ladies is that the woman who knows how to pleasure her man with her mouth is the woman who is likely to get everything she wants in the relationship. Try these five strategies to please your man, sexually and otherwise. To please your man sexually, you have to be adventurous. He wants to talk about his fantasies with you.
Start applying some of these essential tips and you'll go far. If you are light and easy for him to carry around in bed your sex life will be much more satisfying. He wants to do something juuuuust a little kinky. Most relationships go through ups and downs, but make sure your ups are more frequent than your downs by doing the little things it takes to please a man. I have discovered that the majority of women in relationships are abusing what is often described as the strongest muscle in the human body by wagging it in the wrong direction — namely to nag, rant and then moan to other women about their failing relationships.
If you really like this guy there is nothing that can disgust you about him. He wants to get primal. We're validated by how happy we can make you in bed, and that's what we're focused on—not on how much you may have changed. But the most important part is that you are feeling happy while you're pleasing your man. So, brush your teeth to make sure they are fresh and white, wear a lipstick or gloss that makes your lips look luscious and juicy, and get ready to put that tongue of yours to good use… Now, while you are talking to your boyfriend, whether it is in a formal, social, private or public setting, bring his attention to your tongue by looking at him directly in the eyes while you are talking. Surprise him when he least expects it.
Keesling suggests varying the sensations by opening your mouth a bit and rubbing his head between them. Your mouth is perhaps one of the most erotic parts of your body. Try This: Give him a throat job — no, not like that, you can re-hinge your jaw now. This fact alone should be enough for you to work on. So she's going to please you. Most of us are hesitant about doing something out of the ordinary in bed for fear of being judged by our partners. If you want to make your man happy emotionally, then you have to know how to be there for him when he needs you and how to back off and give him space when he needs it.
Instead, try moving around your home or apartment and exploring every nook and cranny with your bodies. So stop waiting around and learn how to be that woman for him. Feed your man's regular hunger, not just his sexual appetite. Guys want to be touched. But decelerating can be powerful. Make yourself feel wonderful by having a soak in the bath beforehand and dressing in something feminine.
Lastly, and most importantly, is understanding that great sex is a two way street. If you want to conquer him and make him go insane over you, you have to give him the best sex humanly possible. Your man will be fine with that--after all, he wants you to enjoy yourself during sex too! Remember to keep the tone positive and non-judgmental. She told me how to please him and she also taught me what I like. Watch the interview clips from The Real below. It could be rock climbing, biking, or playing beach volleyball.